Kate Tomkins Coaching
Leadership that fits the way you live.
I work with women in leadership who are juggling everything life throws at them. Maybe you’re trying to figure out what your next career move should be, working towards a promotion while managing the day-to-day chaos of motherhood, or simply trying to keep on top of your current role. Whatever it is, I’m here to help.
Leadership isn’t about trying to fit someone else’s idea of success. It’s about finding a way to lead that works for you — your priorities, your life, and what actually matters to you.
About me
Hi, I’m Kate. I’m an executive coach, and I work with women in leadership. I’m also a mum to a lively three-year-old boy, and we live just outside London — so yes, life is busy, messy, and slightly chaotic!
After I graduated from the University of Leeds with a BSc in Psychology, I started out managing large student accommodation buildings. I loved the variety, and honestly, the part I loved most was supporting students through whatever challenges they were facing. While working full-time, I also completed an MSc in Surveying and went on to manage accommodation blocks and large teams across the south of the UK.
On paper, it was the dream role. But after my husband died suddenly shortly after our wedding, and later when I became a mum, everything shifted. Returning from maternity leave, I felt torn between wanting to be present for my family and trying to perform in a high-pressure role. The things that had once motivated me — job titles, salary, packed schedules — no longer felt important. I wanted work that actually made a difference, while still allowing me to be there for my family.
Psychology had always been part of me, and when I discovered coaching, everything clicked. I completed the ILM Level 7 qualification in Executive and Senior Level Coaching (EMCC and ICF accredited) and I’m now building my hours towards full EMCC Senior Practitioner accreditation. Honestly, I feel so lucky to do this work.
These days, I support professional women navigating the realities of leadership and modern life. Maybe you’re stepping into a promotion, returning from maternity leave, exploring a new direction, or rebuilding confidence — whatever it is, I provide a safe space to help you untangle your thoughts, gain clarity, and work out how to move forward in a way that actually feels right for you and your life.
I love this work because I’ve been there myself. I know what it’s like when something feels off, when Sunday evenings are full of worry about the week ahead, or when you question whether you’re good enough despite leading teams for years. I’ve felt the juggle, the pressure, and yes — the mum guilt too.
For the first time in my career, I truly love my job. And the best part? Knowing I get to help other women find clarity and confidence, and leave those Sunday evening worries behind, makes it all worthwhile.
Coaching with me
Do any of the below scenarios resonate with you somehow?
The mindset dilemma
You know you want to make a change, but there's that nagging worry: 'Am I good enough? What if it doesn't work out? Am I going to somehow sabotage my own success?"
The leadership juggle
Perhaps you’re balancing a successful career with being a mum, but there’s that little voice at the back of your mind whispering that the balance isn’t quite right. Work is your passion, your chance to be you again - so how do you make it all fit?
The "what do I do next" moment
Perhaps you've taken time out from paid work to raise a family, and now you're thinking about returning to the workplace - but you have no idea what's the right move for you at this stage.
The career transition
Maybe you’ve landed the job you always dreamed of, and yet you catch yourself thinking, “Is this really it?” Or you’ve just stepped into a promotion and suddenly it hits you — “Wow, now I actually have to deliver in this role.”
Whatever’s going on for you right now, coaching with me gives you a safe space to talk it through. Somewhere to pause, untangle those thoughts spinning around in your head, and get really clear about what you want. Together, we’ll explore what’s holding you back, and work out how you can move forward in a way that actually feels right for you.
I genuinely believe the answers you need are already inside you — my job is just to help you uncover them. I’ll be honest, I’ll challenge you when it’s helpful, but I’ll also make sure we have some laughs along the way. Because coaching doesn’t have to feel heavy, it can feel human, warm — and yes, even a little bit fun sometimes!
Coaching packages
I usually work with clients in the following ways, but if you have something specific in mind, just reach out — I’d love to have a chat and see how I can help.
A one-off, 90-minute high-impact session to resolve a specific challenge or map out an immediate transition plan.
6 x 90-minute sessions over a 3 or 6 month period to explore what's really important to you and create long-term, sustainable change.
Launch
A focused session to untangle your thoughts and get moving
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Who it’s for:
This is for professional women who are facing a specific challenge and need a clear, practical solution. Maybe it’s navigating a tricky workplace relationship, or figuring out how to handle a particular dilemma you’re dealing with.
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What’s included:
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A complimentary 15-minute alignment call ahead of committing to coaching
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An energising, 90-minute coaching session on Zoom dedicated entirely to tackling that one core challenge
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A personalised email summary to help you stay focused
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The outcome:
You’ll leave with a deeper understanding of the situation, a practical action plan you can put into practice straight away, and the confidence to make it happen.
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Investment: £150
Evolution
A deep dive into you, helping you to create a life that works for you
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Who this is for:
This is for you if you’re ready to take the next step in your career—maybe you’re coming back after maternity leave, thinking about a new career path, or just feeling stuck and ready to shift your mindset.
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What’s included:
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A free 30-minute chat to see if this feels like the right fit for you
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6 coaching sessions on Zoom (90-minutes each) tailored just for you, over 3 or 6 months
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Personalised email summaries after each session so you can reflect and keep moving forward
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The outcome:
By the end, you’ll have a clearer sense of what truly matters to you, what’s been holding you back, and how to move forward so you can really thrive. Your mind will feel lighter, calmer, and re-energised—ready to take the steps that will create the changes you want.
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Investment:
£600
Recharge
Here to support you as you take what you've learned and put it into action.
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Who this is for:
This is for you if you’ve completed Evolution and want regular check-ins to stay on track, keep momentum, and feel supported as you continue to grow.
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What’s included:
- Ongoing “top-up” sessions on Zoom, usually monthly or quarterly, to help you pause, reflect, and manage whatever’s on your plate
- Personalised email summaries after each session so you can capture insights and stay focused
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The outcome:
Regular space to reflect—personally or professionally—and make sure you’re staying accountable to the changes that matter most to you. These sessions are all about keeping you moving forward whilst ensuring you feel confident and supported.
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Investment:
POA, tailored to your needs
Kate asked brilliant, insightful questions that helped uncover the heart of the matter, paired with kindness and pragmatism.
KATHERINE, LEADERSHIP CONSULTANT
I loved your insights, questions and thoughts. You challenged me really well, bringing a different level of insight. You are humble, calm, focused and a fabulous listener.
SARAH, OWNER OF CONSULTANCY COMPANY
Kate, I have enjoyed working with you so much. Your sense of humour and kindness shine through. You are a natural, empathetic coach and provide focused insights that cut through the noise.
LUCINDA, CURRENTLY A FULL TIME MOTHER
Kate is a wonderful coach. Throughout our engagement she was fully present and created a safe space for me to share freely. Her use of questioning was on point and helped unlock some key issues, generate self-awareness and useful insights. This was such a worthwhile investment leading to a great amount of personal growth. If you are looking to embark on a coaching journey, I would highly recommend Kate.
MARION, OWNER OF L&D CONSULTANCY
Contact me
Please complete the enquiry form if you are interested in working with me or have a query about coaching and whether it's right for you. I'll get back to you as quickly as I can.